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MATT AND BEN TOMPKINS
Matt and Ben are brothers who grew up in Hastings, NE, St Joe, Missouri and Valley, NE. They moved around as their father is a minister, Pastor Russ as he's called. Matt and Ben released a comedy album called Songs For Giants last year which you can find at www.songsforgiants.com.
Ben is an accomplished Horse Rider who loves the wild wild west (speaking of which, Matt and Ben are distant relatives to Buffaloe Bill Cody!). Ben is an amazing drummer and spends his spare time finishing his degrees at UNO, singing angelic melodies and bringing sick animals back to health. Ben loves the outdoors and likes riding his motorcycle (along with Matt, but they don't ride on the same bike they each have their own, okay!), fishing and camping outside. Ben won many awards on Speech Teams and is an award-winning accomplished Actor in Omaha.
Ben's brother Matt is also a musician (guitar man) who has performed with Ben in front of thousands of people. An interesting fact people may not know about Matt is that he won a National Championship Medal for Bench Press Powerlifting when he was 23. Matt has degrees from UNO as well and spends his spare time recording Jingle Production for radio people across the country, producing Videos with his own Video Production business and playing far too much NCAA Football on his Xbox.
MATT AND BEN ARE JOINED BY OMAHA AUTHOR AND SPECIAL GUEST WENDY TOWNLEY!
Omaha author, blogger, and social media connoisseur Wendy Townley (www.wendywriter.com) joins brothers Matt and Ben every Saturday afternoon on 1110 KFAB. Wendy's first book, Nerdy Thirty, was published in 2010 by WriteLife. When she's not on the AM airwaves or spending hours on Facebook and Twitter, Wendy is becoming a better cook with each and every meal. She also teaches part-time for the UNO School of Communication.
MATT AND BEN ALSO HOST AN AFTERNOON SHOW WEEKDAY AFTERNOONS ON TWISTER 93.3, OMAHA'S 'NEW' COUNTRY STATION.
YOU CAN LISTEN TO THEM EACH DAY FROM 3-8PM DOING SOMETHING VERY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT YOU HEAR ON KFAB, BUT THE SAME QUIRKY SENSE OF HUMOR THEY HAVE CROSSES OVER ALL RADIO AIRWAVES.
Are Institutions of men the problem?
After the guilty verdicts were handed down to Jerry Sandusky, I felt relief that justice had come to those innocent people who were so hurt by his horrific actions; however, I didn’t feel fully satisfied as to the result.
I began to think about how this could happen and why it did happen. I realize that there are those individuals who are sick and twisted, those who are purely evil in their intentions. Even with the harsh reality that there are those who only intend to hurt others, even if they are insane or delusional to their vicious actions, there has to be an explanation as to what caused this and why it seems to run to rampid through our society.
The one connection I keep coming back to is the involvement of men and fear of the institutions they vastly dominate.
Before I continue, please know that in each of these institutions the majority of men are good and decent. I don’t like to paint with broad strokes and would never want to give the impression that simply by being a part of an organization someone is in the same category as the most evil of men. This is simply a look at the institutions we hold so high and trying to understand why these horrific sex crimes run so heavily throughout them. Having participated in these different institutions myself, I know that the vast majority who participate are the most commendable of people with honorable intentions.
Sports. Sports, ranging from football to baseball to bowling is an institution dominated by men. Not just on the collegiate level but also on the professional, men vastly dominate it as players, coaches and in the media who cover it. Sadly, sex crimes run rampant in sports. Not every case is as severely cruel as that of Jerry Sandusky, but that doesn’t make the abuse of women through sexual assault and harassment or date rapes any less significant. These sex crimes go unreported for the most part due to the fear of the institutions these men are a part of.
The Military. Another area where sex crimes have been, for a large part, ignored is the military. The cases of women being raped by their fellow soldiers and officers is alarming as more and more of these women are finding the courage to come forward today. It is once again fear that keeps women silent; fear of being dishonored or kicked out of their unit, fear of not finding any justice or (as ridiculous as it sounds) even fear of being punished for speaking out about the crimes committed against them. These women follow the chain of command which means there have been many cases where they have to report the sex crime to the person who committed the sex crime, something almost as offensive as the act itself. It is hard to know how far back these crimes have been happening, but recently it looks more like an epidemic than just the occasional horror story.
The Church. Perhaps the most infamous sex crimes in the modern age are those involving the Catholic Church. These priests have betrayed the most sacred of relationships, abusing the most innocent and unknowing in the children we all wish to protect. The church is more feared than any other organization on the planet, in fact it is often considered a compliment to have “the fear of God” in you. Once again this fear made it difficult for victims to come forward and seek justice for the sex crimes committed against them, and it wasn’t until recent years that anyone in the church even acknowledged a problem; though there are still those criminals who have sought sanction in the church and who have never faced punishment for their crimes.
The commonalities of these institutions are the sex crimes, the fear and power they command on our society and the fact that they are widely dominated by men.
I don’t really have an answer as to why this is, but I hope that we have come far enough along in our evolution as a society to acknowledge that there are these striking similarities between them and work to fix the root of the problem destroying so many innocent lives.
Today I see nothing but rage toward Jerry Sandusky, and justly so, however I hope that we channel this form of passion into fixing our most powerful institutions instead of letting it die with the criminals they have protected for so many years.
I won’t go so far as to claim that these institutions are responsible for producing these sex criminals, but just as the University of Penn State is responsible for letting such horrific crimes committed by Jerry Sandusky go on for decades longer than they should have (leading to more child victims 10 years after they had found out about him), as a society we should not stand idly by and allow these most powerful institutions ignore the sex crimes committed against the innocent.
When we don’t speak up for the innocent who do not have a voice, we are no better than those who committed the crime in the first place.
The internet’s Conservative Blogosphere has their proverbial panties in a wad over Jeb Bush’s comments recently where he said;
“Ronald Reagan would have, based on his record of finding accommodation, finding some degree of common ground, as would my dad — they would have a hard time if you define the Republican Party — and I don’t — as having an orthodoxy that doesn’t allow for disagreement, doesn’t allow for finding some common ground.”
Oh, Jeb, I could not agree with you more, which is why I have said the same thing for years now.
The truth is that today’s definition of what a conservative is has swung so far to the right that the people who inspired the conservatives today (or so they claim) wouldn’t have a fighting chance in today’s Republican Party.
Reagan raised taxes, he cooperated with both parties, and he was against the government stepping into social issues and our personal lives. Bush Senior wasn’t even close to the Bush ‘W’ we knew, which is probably why H.W. was so critical of his son. If you look at the absolutely insane amount of over spending from George W. Bush, de-regulations that in part led to the financial meltdown, the off the books wars, the complete disregard for the courts and constitutional rights with programs like the Patriot Act that would give McCarthy a raging hard on, you would see that ‘W’ is the farthest thing from a conservative.
Yes, George W Bush was closer to a liberal than Obama is today.
The Democratic “liberals” are more like the traditional conservative party than you may like to acknowledge and today’s Republican “conservative” party is so far to the right that nothing is being accomplished.
I am fiscally conservative and socially liberal, mostly because I do not believe the government has any place in our personal social lives. So when I do not believe the Government should define marriage (one way or the other) I was called a liberal atheist who hates god and had one conservative listener even go so far as to call me a “fag.”
How can we move forward as a people when we’re so obsessed with these trivial insults and 5th grade finger pointing?
This used to be a country where you could disagree but now I find backlash when I question anything. If I don’t agree with everything Rush says, if I question something as simple as “Is Mitt Romney the best man for the job?” I am attacked for it. When I question both Obama and Romney in the same breath, people only heard me question Romney and said I’m just a “Liberal supporting Obama’s socialist agenda” from one listener, despite being equally critical of both candidates.
When we can’t even ask basic questions nor have a healthy discussion without open minds we are in serious trouble.
My back porch discussions at the station with the ‘boss’ turn into broad generalizations without even listening to my points. I was recently told on the back porch that Obama is the worst president in the history of the
Do we not remember when the left did the same thing with George W. Bush? Do we not learn any lessons?
So I applaud Jeb Bush for his courage and fearless comments that were honest, genuine and deserve respect from the party he represents. I hope he stands by his comments, even though he is already started to back track away from them, because he is the true leader that the Republican Party needs today.
Politics has been filled with so much hatred today and that is not healthy for our country. Discussions that used to be civil have become so heated people don’t even want to bring politics up with friends. In our recent poll, a vast majority said they are voting for Mitt Romney simply because they want Obama out of office, not because he’s the best man for the job.
Hate is a powerful thing but hate never solved anything. Take a tip from the dead, from those boys who gave their lives in the Civil War and those who lost their lives in the Civil Rights movement…There is nothing “civil” about hate. The only thing hate will do is destroy our great country, if it hasn’t already began to do so.
Jeb Bush is on to something here. Let’s all open our minds and listen to the other side, listen to other people’s beliefs and stop regurgitating hatred we hear from pundits and talking heads. Let’s start loving our country again, not just certain parts of it but everything from sea to shining sea. It’s okay to disagree because in the end, we’re all on the same team here.